Give you 2 choices:
To be on the winning team or to be at the losing side. Which side will you choose... This is a crystal clear answer as everyone loves winning... I dunno why, we will do whatever it takes just to WIN... *sigh* Most of the time it does matter whether we win or not.. There's why there's such a thing called "COMPETITION". And futhermore it's a winner takes all world and no such thing as 2nd place... To get a 2nd place that means u will be forgotten in no time. For ur information I too like to win... and really i do get carried away 70% of the time when i win...and that means i dun give a damn for the so called "loser(s)"...
But sometimes do it really matter to win? Yes it does sometimes, as it's a measurement to see ur achievement.. but sometimes no... becoz besides from gaining at the same time u might lose something more precious also...Everything is just a mere euphoric state.. .
It's a matter on how we win and not why we want to win... it's either we win becoz we are a loud mouth (n talk n talk n talk ur opponent to dead.. or just some "u think u r smart" talks... that u never give other ppl chance to refute?) and nobody else dare to challege us or we win becoz we r capable of winning it. And through the process whether our opponent acknowledge our success or not.. Talking on this , it's a very subjective issue.. as i mentioned b4, most of us will try our best to win...and we won;t care much about the other ppl next to us...
I read about a survey carried out b4 :
1.Given a group of ppl answering some quiz.. and they will receive money for each correct answer...
2. Given another group of people answering some quiz.. and they starts with $500... and for every wrong answer, their stach of money will be deducted..
The result shown that the people in the 1st group show much anxiety and keen in WINNING... Otherwise for group 2 ppl ,where for every wrong answer they stand the risk of LOSING their money... Talking about tough luck ... hahahhahaha
In the end what we gain from winning? Fame, popularity, money, gals and whatsoever.. What we gain from losing? Nothing...Sad feeling, disappoinment... Can't utter a word as if it will take ur life away?(or experience this is what the cliche used by the "loser(s)" to console themselves)... But i thought the winning team also gain experience from it... So we can only see benifit in winning... That's called life.. survivor of the fittest... I win becoz i'm better than u and nothing else...
So it's up to you all whether you all wanna be at the winning team or at the losing side... But it won;t bring any meaning after a while.. coz everyone is going to die hahhahahahah... afterall people will get tired of winning also once in a while... dun mentioned about losing...
Tuesday, May 09, 2006
Life is a lonely path we have to take. And welcome to my lair where i talk about everything i want, and the dark gloomy background is to represent how i like to brood and stay in the dark
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